Applying Buddhist Scriptures to Parent–Child Conflict Resolution in Modern Societies

Abstract

This article examines the application of Buddhist scriptures to the resolution of parent–child conflict in modern societies. The study has three objectives: (1) to study the nature, causes, and impacts of conflict between parents and children in modern societies; (2) to analyse Buddhist scriptural principles relevant to resolving parent–child conflict; and (3) to propose a Buddhist scriptural framework for parent–child conflict resolution. This study employed a qualitative documentary research method. Data were collected from Buddhist scriptures, commentarial and secondary Buddhist sources, academic books, journal articles, research reports, and relevant studies on family conflict, communication, emotional regulation, and parent–child relationships. The collected data were analysed and synthesized to identify Buddhist principles applicable to family conflict resolution.

The findings reveal that parent–child conflictin modern societies often arises from generational differences, communication problems, emotional reactivity, unmet expectations, digital and social pressures, and differing values between parents and children. When unresolved, such conflicts may lead to emotional distance, misunderstanding, strained relationships, and family disharmony. Buddhist scriptures offer practical principles for addressing these problems, especially the Five Precepts, right speech, mindfulness, loving-kindness, and the Four Brahmavihāras. These teachings promote ethical conduct, non-harm, truthful and compassionate communication, emotional awareness, patience, empathy, and balanced understanding.

Based on these findings, the article proposes a Buddhist parent–child conflict-resolution framework grounded in ethical discipline, mindful awareness, compassionate communication, loving-kindness, and emotional balance. The study contributes to Buddhist family studies and conflict-resolution discourse by showing how Buddhist scriptural wisdom can be applied to contemporary family life. It offers practical guidance for parents, children, educators, counselors, and community leaders seeking to cultivate harmonious, respectful, and peaceful family relationships.