An Application of the Buddhist Teachings to Promote the Wedding Ceremony (Le Hang Thuan) at Monasteries in Ho Chi Minh City
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This research aims to explore three objectives: 1) the problematic situations in marriage life and their causes in Ho Chi Minh City; 2) the concept and benefits of the wedding ceremony based on Buddhist teachings in marriage life; and 3) the application of Buddhist teachings to promote the Le Hằng Thuận wedding ceremony at monasteries in Ho Chi Minh City. The study utilizes a qualitative research methodology, drawing on dissertation-based article analysis and in-depth interviews with key informants, including Buddhist scholars and venerable monks.
The findings reveal that the primary issues affecting marriage life in modern Ho Chi Minh City stem from internal and external factors, particularly those associated with contemporary societal changes. Problems such as the pervasive influence of social media and digital connectivity, rapid social transitions, economic pressures, psychological issues, limited communication, domestic violence, and the erosion of ethical standards all contribute to marital challenges. The Le Hằng Thuận wedding ceremony, which originated in Vietnam in the 1940s, offers a unique response to these issues by integrating Buddhist teachings into the marital framework. Couples who participate in this ceremony, which is held in monasteries, report higher happiness and stability in their marriage. The research suggests that this is due to their consistent application of Buddhist teachings, which provide ethical guidance and conflict-resolution strategies. These couples often serve as role models within their communities, demonstrating the positive impact of Buddhist principles on married life. The ceremony, initially conceived by lay Buddhist scholars, provides a valuable opportunity for young couples to learn about Buddhist teachings, especially the practice of mindfulness, the Noble Eightfold Path, the Five Precepts (Pañcasīla), the Four Immeasurables, and the Six Harmonies. These teachings, when applied effectively, transform marital relationships and promote ethical behavior. The research highlights the practicality and effectiveness of these teachings in contemporary marital practices, advocating for their broader adoption to foster harmonious relationships and a morally grounded society. Additionally, the ceremony offers practical benefits, such as reducing the financial burden of modern weddings and providing an opportunity for couples and their families to interact with venerable monks, and learn Buddhist teachings that can be applied to their married lives. This research advocates for the promotion of this wedding ceremony as a means to strengthen marriages and promote social harmony.
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