Constructing Tom Identities in Interaction: A Conversation Analysis of the YouTube Show, “Talk with Betty”
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The representation of Thai toms—individuals assigned female at birth who embrace a masculine identity and are attracted to women—has been limited and often confined to stereotypes, particularly regarding masculine expression. The emergence of new media provides a fresh platform for Thai toms to share their experiences. Using conversation analysis as a framework, this article examines interactions between Thai toms on the Thai YouTube interview-based show “Talk with Betty,” with a particular focus on narratives surrounding their identity realization and coming-out practice. The findings reveal that Thai toms’ identities are heterogeneous, as demonstrated by conversational features. Coming out is constructed as an unnecessary practice. Thai toms’ identities revolve around expressions of both masculinity and femininity, which contrasts with the stereotype that they adhere exclusively to masculinity. Through interactions between the host, Betty and tom guests, they share a mutual understanding that creates solidarity amongst Thai toms.
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